TEND: A Secure Attachment Deep Dive

For folks who are ready to bring the best version of themselves to their relationships and communities.

If you’re familiar with the basic concepts of attachment and you are ready to dive deeper into your healing journey, this online course is for you! We will address our relational challenges, utilizing compassion, applicable neuroscience, exercises for embodiment, and practical strategies to rewire old relationship patterns and create a deep sense of security, confidence, and calm in yourself that will immediately translate to your interpersonal relationships and communities.

This educational online course will:

  • clearly explain the concept of secure attachment and the importance of incorporating secure practices
  • discuss the foundational tools needed to cultivate secure attachment in adulthood
  • explore some of the patterns that keep us from experiencing connection and safety in relationships and how to navigate them with compassion and wisdom
  • include practices designed to soothe the nervous system, rooted in attachment theory and polyvagal theory
  • detail the importance of rupture and repair and explore ways to be better at both
  • provide scripts and suggestions for healthy communication in relationships based on your primary attachment style as well as strategies to increase your sense of confidence in partnerships, friendships, and family relationships
  • explore daily practices for secure attachment in all of your relationships

This course is for you if:

  • You’re ready to level up your attachment game—you know the basics and you want something deeper. You have done some level of attachment work previously, including your own reading and research, one of my online courses, therapy or coaching. Familiarity with attachment concepts will support your learning here
  • You are ready to take an honest inventory of your relationships and your inner world
  • You are single, in a partnership, deeply involved in your community, or wanting to pass on secure attachment to your children

This course is not for you if:

  • You are not familiar with basic attachment concepts or you are not sure about your own attachment style or patterns—we are digging in to some more advanced concepts in this course
  • You are looking for a quick fix for your healing or relationships
  • You aren’t quite ready to commit to greater awareness of the ways you show up in your relationships and doing it differently moving forward (aka you’re not ready to take accountability for your stuff)


Your Instructor


Elizabeth Gillette
Elizabeth Gillette

My name is Elizabeth Gillette, and I'm committed to healing work.

I believe in our innate ability as human beings to heal ourselves and be in relationships with others that feel in alignment with who we are and how we show up in the world. I provide attachment-focused therapy, workshops, and education to support healthy, loving relationships.I'm really excited to be here with you and support you along your healing journey.


Course Curriculum



Frequently Asked Questions


When does the course start and finish?
The course starts now and never ends! It is a completely self-paced online course - you decide when you start and when you finish.
How long do I have access to the course?
How does lifetime access sound? After enrolling, you have unlimited access to this course for as long as you like - across any and all devices you own.
What if I am unhappy with the course?
We hope that's not the case! We also know how important it is for participants to take full responsibility for engaging in this work in a way that feels right for them. I bring my very best to my offerings for participants, therefore there are no refunds for this course.

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